If r(t) is a curve, then the tangent vector to r at t=a is r′(a). On the other hand, the tangent line is the line that passes through r(a) and has direction vector r′(a), i.e.,
L(t)=r(a)+tr′(a)
is a parametrization of the tangent line.
Arc Length
Here's a quick mnemonic to remember the arc-length formula:
From 1D, you should recall that Δf≈f′(x)Δx. This is just a different way to say that the tangent line to f is the best linear approximation to f. With vector-valued functions instead, we end up with
Δr≈r′(t)Δt.
If we take lengths and write s for the arc-length function of r, then
Δs≈∥r′(t)∥Δt.
So, in the limit, we end up with
ds=∥r′(t)∥dt⟹s=∫∥r′(t)∥dt.
From here, to actually use the formula, you'll also need to plug in the bounds for the integral.